Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Loneliness

I have a friend, a high flyer who is always working, literally flying around the world rushing for meetings and staying at some of the finest hotels in the world, and yet he feels strange, like something is not complete. He keeps a blog and even though he only pens down his daily life, one can sense a very strong undercurrent of emptiness.

I have a friend who keeps a blog and is rather popular, he always pen his thoughts and feelings in his blog in which he talks about his happiness, his work, his friends. He is rather funny in his blog and sometimes his comments draw laughter. And yet, one can sense that he does not really laugh at his life, in fact one can read a very strong tone of loneliness.

I have a friend, another high flyer who is earning about $4k per month and yet she feels lonely, to the extend of looking around at the wrong places for physical companionship. She ended up feeling empty after each relationships. And worse of all, getting hurt.

I have a friend who likes to keep to himself, does not like to tell anyone his problems, to the point that he will get very enrage if one probes him about his problem. He likes to hang around by himself, not wanting nor liking people to intrude in his life. And yet there is this constant yearning in him to open himself to others, to share his thoughts and feelings with someone.

I have a friend who is always working until late at night, not wanting to go home even though everyone in the office has gone home. On the outside, he is a cheerful joker, always making jokes and making fun of others. Yet, he has a strange look on his face when you ask him about his life.

I have a friend, who looks exactly like me, always smiling and seem happy. She works everyday, pushing herself to fulfill the expectations of the people around her, trying to look ok on the outside. She looks tough outside, rushing around everyday trying to solve her everyday problems. Yet inside she is very fragile, to the point that she cries herself to sleep almost every night. To the point that sometimes she feels like giving everything up, to walk away from everyone around her, to be free and to be off to a place where there is no loneliness.

I believe these friends are inflicted by the one of the strongest diseases of our society. Its called loneliness.

A long word with a simple implication.

So ironic, so sad and so empty.

So cold..

14 comments:

rijac said...

the world is a funny place. here i am, always surrounded by people. and what i really want is to be alone.

iRis said...

Guess you must have got an immunity towards this society virus then..

DK said...

I'm trying to figure out if I'm one those being mentioned here....

Anonymous said...

i dont think so, cos the entry is talking about "people".

iRis said...

Mr Anonymous, this entry is all about people, in case you still have not figure it out. I don really like to make friends with animals..

DK said...

Which explains why that mr anonymous isn't your friend.

vesance said...

Why did s/he even write stuff like that when the IP address can be captured?

iRis said...

Perhaps he don know and thought he can hide behind the shield of anonymity?

putitthisway said...

Well, anonymity or the pretense of it enbolden people to what they are normally to scared to do. Same for loneliness which hides in the crowd and raise its ugly head to bite hard in the ass when 1 least expected.

rijac said...

off topic... spug down ah?

iRis said...

yea, it looks like Spug is down... Again..

rijac said...

www.spug.net/forums

works if type like this...

Paddy Tan - BAK2u.com said...

Err.. seems like DK is one of them but no worries, I believe iris means no offense anyway.

I also not sure if I am those that are lonely or not type of people. Hmm

Paddy Tan - BAK2u.com said...

Oh .. I find that everytime SPUG is down, the traffic to WTT goes up! hahaha.