tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10980067.post112943365630889714..comments2023-09-30T19:25:55.553+08:00Comments on iRis: Marriage in Spore = financial burdeniRishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03999396938246247458noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10980067.post-1129470962080275452005-10-16T21:56:00.000+08:002005-10-16T21:56:00.000+08:00Well, both of you have very valid points For me ho...Well, both of you have very valid points <BR/><BR/>For me however, I have always believe that wedding dinners are too over-rated. Its true that a girl will look her best and is the most fussed over on her wedding day but then again, just think of the effort, time and money invested in the wedding. Its way too much.. i just don see the point in spending so much just to look good and to be fussed over in that single day. I would rather use that money and spend a couple of weeks in some romantic part of the world with my hubby. Isn't that more interesting?! :DiRishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03999396938246247458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10980067.post-1129446185324327532005-10-16T15:03:00.000+08:002005-10-16T15:03:00.000+08:00That was my sentiments exactly (and still is, to q...That was my sentiments exactly (and still is, to quite an extent), to not hold any dinner...<BR/><BR/>that was till i attended my good fren's...she looked so beautiful that night, walking down the aisle (she always has been beautiful, but on the wedding night, she was just stunning beyond words!)...<BR/><BR/>That was when I tot - This is really YOUR night, the night when all the attention is on you..and like the saying always goes, women look the most beautiful on their wedding...how true...on how many other occasions can u have so many people, your family, good frens, make-up artise, the photographer, etc, fussing all over you to make sure that you look nothing lesser than your best?<BR/><BR/>So, after that night, my always-adamant no-dinner-is-the-best idea started to sway a little :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10980067.post-1129438770660397422005-10-16T12:59:00.000+08:002005-10-16T12:59:00.000+08:00So with you on this one... I always wish I had elo...So with you on this one... I always wish I had eloped.<BR/><BR/>I had 120 people at my engagement party - all my in-laws to be, friends...I was so bored!<BR/><BR/>I'm all for wedding actually being about the couple and what they want, not about pleasing everyone else then you living out your wedding dream by doing the same thing to your children's weddings.<BR/><BR/>Urgh!<BR/><BR/>Damn weddings...such a waste of money!!<BR/><BR/>Mermaid Girl<BR/><BR/>P.S - That wasn't supposed to sound quite so bitter!Mermaid Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09172963530343496418noreply@blogger.com